What are your biggest turn-offs in a girl?

chimpastronaut · 1 year

Stupidity

UptownDonkey · 1 year

Clinginess is a deal breaker. I have my own thing going on. I'm reasonable about it but I can't tolerate someone who needs to be with me every waking hour or text me 50 times a day to "check in" The thing that really burns me is the way so many girls hide this trait or outright deny it. Soon they find something to justify it and the transformation into clingy psychotic begins.

oostism · 1 year

I don't want to be a girl's "project".

zsaleeba · 1 year

Eyebrows torn out and replaced with permanently-surprised sharpie marks.

smoothiee · 1 year

Astrology. I don't know how many times I've spoken with a pretty girl who, in the midst of a smooth and stimulating dialogue, inquires after my zodiac sign, only to remark that: "Oh, you're a Scorpio? But that means we're not compatible." :[

slomotion · 1 year

"I don't read"

rotzooi · 1 year

Girls who don't have their own lives and insist on spending every.last.minute with their boyfriends. I mean, I love you and all, but please give me some space from time to time and do something with your sister or your friends.

usingthisonce · 1 year

The "I'm a total idiot but it's okay because I'm hot and therefore better than you are" personality.

1 year

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orbish · 1 year

Bad tattoos.

MercurialMadnessMan · 1 year

I'll just describe my ex because I need to let it out:

Arrogance
Lack of sympathy
Doesn't understand reciprocity
Selfish
Bad communication
Wants you to literally do everything in the relationship
Lacks the "actions speak louder than words" gene
Lies or skews the truth
Consistently says "i dunno" and "maybe"
Lack of any ounce of commitment
Can't decide on things
Appreciates nothing
Spoiled by everything around her and still not happy

I'm so glad to be done with this bullshit.

GrantSolar · 1 year

I hate it when I show up at her place and Chris Hansen is waiting for me.

Kheten · 1 year

Callow and histrionic women are the worst in my book. Self identity and wit are the biggest turn-ons for me. I don't want a pet, I want someone who can look at me eye-to-eye; stand up for what she believes in; call me out on my bullshit; and have intelligent discussion; if you're into feet and a little ropeplay all the better.

thirtysixred · 1 year

When she's not able to have an intellectual conversation with me.

BuboTitan · 1 year

Girls who give the following type of conversation. Repeat variations this over and over, through a course of many years, and it will drive you mad:

Me: "Where would you like to eat tonight".

Her: "I don't care, wherever you want"

Me: "Great. Let's go to XXX".

Her: "What's the matter with you? I don't want to go there".

Me: "So where should we go instead?"

Her: "I don't know".

Me: "How about YYY?"

Her: "No".

Me: "The how about ZZZ?"

Her: "No".

Me: "Then where??"

Her: "I don't know".

Then me tearing hair out in frustration, as we go though this six or seven more times before deciding on a restaurant.

marquisdeholstein · 1 year

biggest turn-off in a girl? another guy's dick.

KingOfSwords · 1 year

Girls with too many emotional problems. If you're a train wreck, sorry. Not that I'm perfect, but when your profile on OKcupid says "im sick of BOYS treating me like shit and now i want a MAN", you can tell a whole lot by that single sentence. Always the hot ones, too. Crazy bitches.

aestrada013 · 1 year

In my college English class, there is a stunningly beautiful Indian girl (by Indian I mean of actual Indian descent). By stunning, I mean you notice when she enters the room. I gawked over her for about 20 minutes, then she opened her mouth. "I don't like know, I feel like the author like was kinda younger than like she said..." A small part of me died.

Edit: I mean Indian from India, not the bastardized version of "Indian" we Americans are used to.

lanismycousin · 1 year

Smoking

Ghetto Girls

The inability to speak any language correctly

refusal to take a shower

subtonix · 1 year

Fat. Yes, I'm shallow.

pjpark · 1 year

Calling me a dork.
Calling the police.
Pepper spray.

minesapint · 1 year

Watching her use toenail cuttings as toothpicks

mortonsfork · 1 year

I'd rather get the herp from an average smart girl than hear the derp from a hot one.

xnvb · 1 year

Anything remotely resembling any girl having anything to do with Jersey Shore.

MistyMountainHop · 1 year

Lack of curiosity
Bad taste in music (often, but not always, caused by #1)

pyxlated · 1 year

Shallowness, cattiness and stupidity. They also take a few hits if they're religious, but I try not to discriminate.

Nexlon · 1 year

Googly Eyes.

Lufiere · 1 year

Voice. I hate girls with really high pitched voices. This is partly because if they consume alcohol they never shut up and it rises to the pitch that only an axe to the face can stop.

joinertek · 1 year

A penis

KineticSolution · 1 year

When they DON'T put the lotion on their skin and act surprised when they get the hose.

[deleted] · 1 year

Routine-oriented, sexually nonexistent or unwilling to explore, vulgarity

idk

nancyjew · 1 year

I don't like girls with low self-esteems. Girls who don't know how to treat themselves right. You know, you meet these types. They're the sort who go running back to their abusive ex-boyfriend and all that crap. They have no dignity. I don't want to rescue some bitch. I don't want a damsel in distress. I want a girl who's smart and has a good head on her shoulders.

mobilehypo · 1 year

I propose that for threads like these in the future, respondents must post a photo of themselves along with their turn offs.

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ElectricFrank · 1 year

Girls who aren't good at anything/don't have any kind of passion. If you don't have a hobby other than facebook, mainstream music or reddit, fuck you. I guess that goes for dudes and girls but this is a thread about turn offs. and dudes dont turn me on.

Manberg · 1 year

"I don't read"

veggie-dumpling · 1 year

As a girl on Reddit, I am now taking notes.

Digitalabia · 1 year

I dislike bit tits and $$. I remember this one chick I dated...she was such a loser. Get this, she had to work TWO jobs! First she would end her shift at the topless bar, then start her shift at her father's liquor store. Plus, she would always come home with all this dirty money and leave it lying around everywhere. Plus, the booze everywhere. All the beer in the fridge all the time started to get on my nerves.

I think she was probably molested or something as a kid because she would constantly be asking to suck my dick. One time she cornered me in the laundry room and begged me to fuck her ass. I was sick of listening to her, so I just did it. Then, right before I cum, she jumps off my cock and swallows my load! How gross!!! I stopped talking to her after that. Ugh, and don't get me started on her twin sister.

andrewsayshello · 1 year

the duck face.

joe-king · 1 year

talk of former boyfriends

Insecurity

Skid marks

edit:Hairy Nipples

  mustaches

Pro Tip:There is the same submission, only for women, going on right now. Excellent insider info.

roastedbeef · 1 year

Stupidity.

chimpastronaut · 1 year

Texting to some other fucking guy whilst I'm trying to court her >:C

Am I boring? :(

HideousInfant · 1 year

shitty taste in music.

foobarr · 1 year

Unguided motor mouth. (Let me get my other foot in the fucking door! Let me get something to eat! etc.)

*edit: also speed talking so fast words start to blur together, forgetting to breathe because talking is so important (blah blah! <GASP> blah b...)

wjoelbrooks · 1 year

Fake breasts.

Tax_Ninja · 1 year

Chicks who mace me.

sbjf · 1 year

Ignorance, Dumbness, Smokes Tobacco.

amorallawngnome · 1 year

Interest in the Twilight Saga.

Zoldor · 1 year

She's blonde.
The most complex novel she's ever read was written by Stephenie Meyer.
She expects to be treated like a princess just because she's female.
She believes in religion/astrology/New Age/misc. bullshit.
She thinks that all it takes to be sexy is a revealing outfit.

Clyzm · 1 year

Stupidity, arrogance, smoking, stupidity, overly political, religious, stupidity.

ClearlyNotWorking · 1 year

No Reddit Gold subscription.

rlbond86 · 1 year

overly religious / doesn't believe in evolution. An easy litmus test.

usuallyskeptical · 1 year

Crazy eyes

historyisaweapon · 1 year

1) racism. 2) A girl who doesn't enjoy eating. 3) being boring.

keylogthis · 1 year

Racism.

alexpsyched · 1 year

Shyness. I'll admit it's pretty cute at the beginning, but it gets really difficult to know the person.

I_luvtheCIA · 1 year

Religious or republican...or a smoker.

tragicallyludicrous · 1 year

smelly vagina

derekaw · 1 year

Smoking

[deleted] · 1 year

Finding my best friend. :(

[deleted] · 1 year

not having sex with me...HUGE turnoff.

SeriousGeek · 1 year

When she feels like she understands something insightful about me when she really doesn't know me well enough yet.

When she uses "sweetie" or "honey" in a condescending manner, without realizing it.

Every once in a while, when we hug and she does the pat-on-the-back thing...again, without realizing it.

When she acts oblivious about guy friends being physically attracted to her (that's right, I said acts).

When she feels like I'm not giving her the right to have an opinion simply because I don't agree with hers.

When she makes those mind-draining gender-based generalizations that everyone makes.

Oh yeah, and religion. Fucking religion. sigh

frenris · 1 year

Negativity. Like girls who just spend more time talking down or saying certain things, people, places, or the weather is bad, or how they're not enjoying themselves, or how x was better -- it's just entirely unattractive.

As in, fuckit, don't you like having fun? Why are you trying to do the fucking opposite?

bobbyelliott · 1 year

Stupidity. Superstitious. Self-absorption. Sexism ("the man should pay"). Moody. Misandrist. Abuses her sexuality by using sex in some kind of punishment-and-reward system.

HeirToPendragon · 1 year

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norwegianbastard · 1 year

Girls who don't do shit with their lives.. "Oh, I don't know what I want with my life, so I'm going to drop out of school and sit home all day!" - Fuck that.

Also, no humor, that's a total killer for me.

Smoking is bad.

Edit: Believing in a god of any kind.

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