LADIES: is it weird when a guy gets hard while making out with you?

smallpenis · 1 year

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nerdylaundry · 1 year

if i'm making out with a dude, i would hope he gets a boner at some point... otherwise we're doing it wrong. isn't the point of foreplay to get aroused?

corporatehuman · 1 year

COME ON MAN, I GOT A BONER IN AMERICAN HISTORY CLASS WHILE MAKING A PRESENTATION ON ANDREW JACKSON, YES IT HAPPENS

subthrowaway · 1 year

If I'm making out with a guy, I'm doing it to give him a boner. I don't think it's weird at all. Even if it is in public - after all, you can do the waistband tuck until we go someplace relatively deserted. I also have no problems with a guy needing to readjust the position of his erection, I imagine a twisted boner is rather uncomfortable.

I've never understood girls who are squeamish about erections. I think they're rather flattering.

Of course, I know some men need direct stimulation, particularly the older they get, so I wouldn't exactly get upset if they don't get a boner either...

defragc · 1 year

I doubt it, but if you were to start stroking it and moaning about sea urchins it might get weird.

smeenatchu · 1 year

It would be weird if he didn't get a boner. I would definitely think there's something wrong with me then.

TeaandKnickers · 1 year

Is it weird? Hell no! I'd find it flattering, as long as he didn't get super embarrassed about it. It's a compliment. :D

B0udicca · 1 year

Making out usually makes me wet, so I would generally expect that a make-out session causes a boner. I think boners are hot anyway, so it's definitely not awkward.

[deleted] · 1 year

Is it weird? Nope, try expected. I hope he's hard, or I'm doing something seriously wrong.

[deleted] · 1 year

good lord. This is like saying "When I go into the woods and rub bacon grease all over my body, is it weird when bears try to eat me?"

A girl should be offended if you don't get hard, I would think.

4thdown · 1 year

your responses to the comments are really weirding me out. Yes, you're normal.

polluteconversation · 1 year

I used to feel self conscious about it, but then I realized... no, I'm not going to feel awkward about being turned on by a person who is actively taking steps to turn me on. Don't sweat it.

myeyeswide · 1 year

It happens to me, sure. But I would be pretty mystified about a girl who thought it was some kind of abomination. "You can kiss and grope me but if you get aroused OMG THAT IS TERRIBLE". It's hot as hell if I can detect arousal signs from a girl I'm gettin' heavy with!

[deleted] · 1 year

I personally think it's hot, shows me that I turn him on.

kry1212 · 1 year

It's not weird, it's flattering. I'm just glad this still happens to my husband after 8 years.

Sephira · 1 year

Weird? No.

Flattering and arousing? Yes.

wthulhu · 1 year

i'm merely remarking upon the paradox of a man named smallpenis asking why a chick didn't notice his erection.

AnnArchist · 1 year

maybe when you are 13./

kev07 · 1 year

Yes you are weird.

As a guy, if I'm making out with a girl and she starts getting wet, i squeel and jet for the door

/sarcasm

OneGirlArmy · 1 year

No. It's not weird. It's preferred.

almondz · 1 year

It would be weird if a guy didn't get a boner when I was making out with him...

arrozconfrijol · 1 year

It's weird if when a guy doesn't get hard.

cammyabbo · 1 year

fuck no, he better!

throwaway1984 · 1 year

If a girl is kissing you that means she attracted. If u pop a boner during a makeout session it's a cue to her that you are enjoying it and getting turned on. There is nothing wrong with this. It's the same biological response that a women gets when her nipples become erect or when she starts getting moist. I wouldn't be grossed out by it. It's normal

smitty22 · 1 year

If you're asking this question, you must be 12 - and don't worry it'll get bigger after your testicles drop.

treebox · 1 year

This is the stupidest question I've ever seen on reddit.

SuiteM · 1 year

Not wierd. I rather expect it if things are heating up. It doesn't happen all the time, and may not be at full mast, but there is usually some sort of reaction when making out.

All I have to do is tell my husband I want sex and he arrives in bed with a boner before we even have contact.

longdoggg · 1 year

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[deleted] · 1 year

As a guy, I'd say it was more weird if you didn't.

[deleted] · 1 year

It happens to me, and I don't think it is weird at all.t I have the mentality that guys can't control their boners. They may be self conscious about it and be better at hiding it but in the end it always shows. My first kiss was really awkward, as they usually are, but what made it awkward was that the guy was standing far apart so that we would lean into the kiss because he didn't want me to feel his boner. It happens at clubs too. I, as a girl, know that the ball is in my court, but I see/feel a boner it just means I can take it further if I want or stop there.

mybuttwasprobed · 1 year

I'm pretty certain that I didn't get laid a few times because I DIDN"T pop a boner while making out. I got the feeling the girls wanted me hard before moving on. Fear of the flaccid penis rejection is my guess. Women - amirite?

mrrrw · 1 year

isn't that the point of makeouts?

mariemarionette · 1 year

If he isn't getting a boner while we're making out, I make sure to take it up a notch.

WalterPeck · 1 year

You can't be serious.

socalbeachgal · 1 year

I love when I'm making out with a guy and can tell that he is getting hard because his taste changes. That just makes me want to do more with him!

Phantasmal · 1 year

Nope. I would be pleased. It is when he is actually grabby/pushy that I am weirded out. Involuntary reflexes are fine.

In fact, a man with an erection that is still polite and considerate is a lot more of a turn on than a man without.

glass-anteater · 1 year

Nope I would feel awkward if it didn't cause then it's like, what am I doing wrong is he not into it.

tequilasunrize · 1 year

I would assume he was not into me if we are seriously macking on each other little buddy downstairs didn't pop up to say "hi".

kachapati · 1 year

Why the fuck would it be weird? That's the whole point of making out...sexytime. You damn well better get hard or I'll assume you're gay.

Allycia · 1 year

If my boyfriend stopped getting boners when we were making out... I wouldn't have a boyfriend any longer.

pin_up_girl · 1 year

It means you are doing it right, boners on a guy while making out it so sexy!!!

Clavat · 1 year

I'm particularly sensitive, sometimes even just hugging a girl causes me to get a stiffer. >.>

sneakatdatavibe · 1 year

Why do you care? Live, and stop seeking the approval or sanctions of others.

clydiebaby · 1 year

totally good as long as you don't cum in your pants... that's bad

nicolauz · 1 year

Tense your leg up, thigh muscles release blood from da pe-pe.

padoodles · 1 year

isnt this supposed to happen?

kayenta · 1 year

It is not weird when that happens at all. Pretty satisfying, in a way, actually.

However, if the making out starts and the boner is already there...pretty weird.

dietmoxie · 1 year

What the fuck is physically wrong with you if you dont instantly get a boner making out with a girl you want to be naked with

yamsham · 1 year

Not at all, it's really hot!

AMerrickanGirl · 1 year

It's only weird if the girl is 12 years old. Try dating women who know what a boner is.

Sheenwa · 1 year

Question: Are you a virgin/ never been with a girl before?!

StaticSignal · 1 year

Not weird at all, I'll get a boner just thinking about kissing my girlfriend. Making out with her is the next best thing to sex! But when you're just sucking face with some girl, your boner is your signal that she's a good kisser and you find being with her arousing. Your boner is a compliment, and most girls take it as such.

magic_school_bus · 1 year

I thought kids would be back in school by now

anepnpiam · 1 year

Its a turn on....but one has to feel it. With a "small penis" though, it may have been a turn off. The statement, "It's not the size of the ship that matters, but the motion of the ocean" is completely false. No pencil dicks or vienna sausages, please!

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