I'll just repost what I posted before:

All humor aside, it really is simpler for women to pick up guys than for guys to pick up girls. All material is really essentially geared either way. The difference is:

1. Men don't need pretense for going back to a girl's place,

2. Don't need to be affirmed that they're not sluts for sleeping with a girl on the first day

3. Don't have all those other apparent barriers to short-circuiting the whole thing to just sex

Hence, a lot of techniques a guy needs to make a woman feel comfortable and attracted to him and not slutty are overgaming when it comes to men.

It really is simple for women, you're inherently better at social cues. We men need pick up material to catch up with you. But here are the basics:

1. Be attractive. Men are far more superficial than women according to every study. Fortunately, being attractive is not just a matter of the body you're born with but far more: how you dress, do your hair, do your make up, etc... Consult with a friend who will be honest with you about how you present yourself. I know a girl who would look so much better with a makeover, and all her friends think so too, but they haven't told her because she hasn't asked.

2. Be fun, positive, playful, silly. This is 95% of being accessible for flirting to a guy. I know a lot of girls who have perfected playing girly when they want (think pouty Britney in "... Baby One More Time".) This rarely goes wrong.

3. Wear at least one notable or unusual item when you go out that gives guys that like you an excuse to talk to you (e.g. necklace, hat, sports team shirt)

4. If you catch a guy looking at you, even for a moment, chances are he's into you, which means all you have to do is indicate interest

5. TOUCH. Touch his arms, wrists, neck, face, knee, whatever.. as a natural part of conversation. We term this touching KINO and it's very effective both at conveying interest and building attraction.

6. Make him think he's seducing you. Be impressed by whatever manliness he's displaying or talking about. Guys love to have the feeling of power and will be that much less shy about making the first move when they do.