Wow, this is an interesting topic. I consider my own circumcision very often, as it has been raised as an offensive act by people like Christopher Hitchens whom I respect greatly. I never considered it at all, and actually consider it to be a more attractive "look" than an uncircumcised penis. That said, I now totally see the mutilation argument and really don't know what I will do for my male children should I have any.

But your story really makes me sad. I am truly sorry that you will never get to experience a part of your body that I know through experience is very powerful. I chalk this up to another thing that religion has done to man and it infuriates me. Your parents and all others who subscribe to this should be subject to criminal prosecution, mostly because this was done at the AGE OF SEVEN without anesthesia. (Aside: ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?)

But in reference to your question, if I hooked up with you and we ended up in the sack, I wonder if I'd even notice. If I went down on you I'm sure I would, but I suppose it depends on how you have healed and what it looks like. Personally, I am a guy who prefers a vagina that doesn't have labia protruding from the vulva, so that might actually score you points in my book.

All things considered I think that any dude who wouldn't take your story into consideration is a fool. Don't worry about it (as much as you can or that is possible.)

Best of luck. :)